Because we are so lightning quick to demean the flaws of our brother it is no wonder he is so slow to come out from behind himself. So he stays tucked away, lost inside himself, never daring to step out and ask for help. He is so afraid his brother's keeper will turn out to be just like Cain. Recall Cain slayed his brother Abel.
I believe in telling the truth. But I want to hear the biblically inspired truth. The kind in Ephesians 4:25. Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body.
If we are all members of one body then we don't try to hurt the body. We go out of our way to put healing into the body. Healing comes from grooming, nurturing, consoling, supporting, caring, satisfying, uplifting, dealing and fulfilling what is inside the body. And we do this because as one body we know to treat others the way that we want to be treated in that body. Quite simple isn't it?!
Speak your truth through a lens of love and helpfulness.