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The Gift From My Magi

9/11/2013

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On my first wedding anniversary over twenty years ago, my new husband bought me a special bound keepsake edition of THE GIFT OF THE MAGI as his first anniversary gift to me. I could not conceal my tears nor my disappointment. I wanted jewelry, dinner, flowers, clothes, something more meaningful. I had never even heard of THE GIFT OF THE MAGI. How could he be so thoughtless? This tiny little book with like ten pages in it. How much could that cost? My husband could not conceal his disappointment with my disappointment. He wiped my tears away and said softly, "just read it."

Jim and Della are a husband and wife living in a rented room in New York. They are quite poor and recently Jim has had his salary
cut back to only $20 a week from the $30 a week he used to make. After rent and groceries, the couple hardly have any money left.

Christmas is only a day away and, for a Christmas present, Della wants to buy Jim a gold
watch chain for his gold watch. They do not have much to be proud or happy about, but Jim is very proud of that watch. And Della? Della is most proud of her beautiful long hair. But she really wants to buy that gold chain for Jim's watch. Too bad she only has $1.87. So, she decides to sell her hair to a woman who makes wigs and other hair articles. The woman pays Della $20 for her hair. The chain costs $21, so she now has enough money. She buys the chain to give to Jim. She goes home and prepares Jim's dinner and waits for him to come home, a little bit worried that
Jim will be
shocked when he sees her with all her beautiful hair cut off. 
When Jim comes home, he does look shocked when he sees Della with short hair. He stares at her in a
strange way and it scares her. She explains to Jim how she sold her hair to buy him a nice Christmas present. Jim tells her not to worry and that nothing can change his love for her. The reason he is shocked to see her without her long hair is that he also wanted to get a nice Christmas present for Della. 

He gives her the present wrapped in paper and Della unwraps it to see that Jim had bought her a set of beautiful combs for her hair. She had seen them in a shop before, but they were so expensive. How was Jim able to afford them? Suddenly, she remembers Jim's present. She gives him the gold chain. The chain is beautiful, but when Della asks Jim to put it on his watch, Jim surprises her. He sold the watch to buy her those nice combs. 

Were they both foolish to sell their favorite
possessions? O.Henry tells us that, no, they were wise. They were wise because they had each sacrificed their most valuable possessions for the person they loved. They were like the three wise men — the Magi — who brought presents for Jesus Christ after he was born. Keep in mind, that this is why Christians still give presents on Christmas Day: to remember the gifts the Magi brought Christ on that very first Christmas.

The GIFT OF THE MAGI remains the best lesson and most special gift I have ever received. Too bad I did not receive that gift in my spirit 21 years ago.

4 Comments
Cleorisa robin shelby
9/11/2013 04:25:41 am

I feel that was the most romantic thing ever done however, the presents were exchanged however they forgot the meaning of CHRISTmas CHRIST was born for the purpose of our sins to be washed away

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La Detra
9/11/2013 05:14:48 am

Amen

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Kuan-Yin Hamlet
9/11/2013 10:36:17 am

It is amazing - no matter how often I read this story- I come away with the same lesson: love is sacrifice / work and dedication.
Enjoy the combs!

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La Detra
9/11/2013 10:42:34 am

Thanks so much for your comment. What a blessing.

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