Sexy to me is more than sex appeal. It is a total package of sexy. Inside out appeal which includes words, expressions, dress, scent, environment, engagement, interest, connection, touch. It is not about how long or intense you are able to create a special moment but more about the authenticity of that moment. I have seen incredibly sexy women wearing no makeup, hair pulled up in a ratty bun wearing a faded T-Shirt. I have seen sexy men with face stubble wearing flip flops. Sexy is not entirely about the aesthetic presentation. It is more about the creation and follow through of a weightless warmth of adoration for another person. Sexy is transferred visually, auditory, physically, and yes mentally. When all these requirements aren't met you get something approaching sexy but it takes a detour toward lust. Lust does not stick around long. Lust is fleeting.
Never give up on your sexy. Don't buy into society's viewpoint of you are too young for this or too old for that. Trust your instincts. Explore your inner beauty. Take some risks. Laugh at your flaws. Accept the less than perfect things about yourself that you cannot change or care not to change. Cheer your sexy destination.
Tell yourself, I AM BEAUTIFUL! I LOVE MYSELF! I AM QUITE THE SEXY SELF!
Now go buy something that makes even you blush and regain your sexy!