A force is a push or a pull that acts upon an object as a results of its interaction with another object. Forces result from interactions! Some forces result from contact interactions (normal, frictional, tensional, and applied forces are examples of contact forces) and other forces are the result of action-at-a-distance interactions (gravitational, electrical, and magnetic forces).
According to Newton, whenever objects A and B interact with each other, they exert forces upon each other. When you sit in your chair, your body exerts a downward force on the chair and the chair exerts an upward force on your body. There are two forces resulting from this interaction - a force on the chair and a force on your body. These two forces are called action and reaction forces and are the subject of Newton's third law of motion.
Relationships are action and reaction forces. Marriage is the ultimate expression of these forces. At times the forces are normal, frictional, or tensional. What we must never forget that all forces come in pairs. So before we act we must know that there will always be a reaction.
The one who initiates action largely influences the reaction. One can guide the force by remaining keenly aware of potential consequences be them good or bad.
Next time you initiate a new force in your relationship, consider the following:
You want more love....give more love.
You want to hear kind words.....share nice words.
You want more intimacy....initiate a form of intimacy you want to get back.
You want love.....show much respect.
MAY THE FORCES BE WITH YOU.