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Men are from Mars Women are from Brooklyn.

8/18/2013

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Funny how relationships work between men and women. Even the best relationships can fall into the cross hairs of "Oh no he didn't" and "Oh now she is really trying me." Well after a few decades of being in or near a relationship of one form or another with the opposite sex I think I can provide some "senior" perspective.

First, let's look at when men and women argue. Men want the argument to be short and one dimensional ....e.g. stick to the subject at hand. Women will take the argument back  4-5 years before she even met you and will stay up until dawn to have that last word. Men to save you some time, we also really need to hear the words, "you are right, I was wrong."

Second, let's visit the subject of chores. Men just want to know what they need to do and above all, do not want to be reminded every hour on the hour. Women like to write down that list in about three places and we need updates along the way. Then when all is done we can feel like "we" have accomplished something together.

Lastly, the "L" word. That stands for LIKE. Men will tell you they love you once and truly believe that will carry them way down the peace and happiness road. Women love hearing "like" from their man. I like the dinner you made, I like that the kids are happy, I like that dress, I like coming home to you,

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Tonya
8/22/2013 09:18:20 am

This is so on point! I never thought about the 'love' 'like' dynamic but it's true! Only when we learn to interpret each others words and/or actions, can we truly begin to communicate effectively!!

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