No need to be nasty or accusatory. No allowing yourself to be talked into back peddling. Tell yourself over and over, "Onward and upward!" No more being stuck. No more settling. No more being mad and blue. Do something while you are fired up. Don't wait for another makeup. This time Just Do it! No more rewarding bad acts. Bondage looks bad on you. It is high time you start listening to your insides. Now stop settling for second best. Halt in your very tracks and do what you should have done a long time ago.
You two need to break up I told her, before you have a complete break down. You ready I asked her? And on that day she answered, "Yes."
I broke up with me. I broke free of those parts of me that kept me from greener pastures. I broke up with my overdrawn credit cards. I broke up with my unhealthy eating habits, drinking habits, self-loathing mental habits. I broke free of excuses habits, woe is me habits, and "I would if I could" habits. All gone. I didn't even leave a note. I just left.