Ever begin to get that nagging lingering feeling that this thing of yours isn't lasting, was never lasting. That the only real thing about it was your saying it was real. And the only lasting part was all the time that has passed. The real deal is this. If it wasn't real to begin with it will not last. Real things are made to last, they are just made that way.
Stop pretending and begin investing in lasting and real outcomes for you! Nothing unreal in that.