God likes to see things grow, bigger, taller and better than ever before. He rejoices when we learn from our missteps. Bitterness does not grow from seeds He planted in love relationships. He wants to see blossoms without the kind of thorns that prick and stick to things. No he wants love relationships to reach higher and higher and higher up to the sky. He grants the titillation of intimacy, and through his words encourages the touch and feel and ecstasy of two people joined together. Exhilaration is of His creation alone.
So we will catch the little foxes that destroy the new buds on our vines. We will keep the little problems out of our vineyard. We will destroy them before they have an opportunity to destroy what has flowered in our bountiful vineyard. We will do this by remaining open in communication, by always reminding one another of God's hand in the selection of us together forever as one.