Abundantly clear

We make it abundantly clear to people how we feel by not saying much at all. Others learn so much more about us not so much by words but by action, our actions. When someone asks me do I understand? I respond, "abundantly"!

I am able to respond abundantly because almost always this person has shown me over time, has demonstrated to me more than once how they really  feel....abundantly. Notice I did not say they have "told" me, no they have "shown" me.

I get so very frustrated when words and deeds don't match up. I say this in any sort of relationship be it marital, friendship, family. Humor me as I list a few of my abundant examples.

1. They show you where you fit in how they spend their discretionary time.
2. You give, they take. They ask for change.
3. They say, I love you too. You are the one initiating, they are responding/receiving.
4. You get the feeling they are always playing Ketchup (Catch Up).
5. Your "tank" is empty their tank is full.
6. You feel a let down of disappointment before they even have a chance to pull their trigger. You have seen it all before, abundantly.
7. Real joy comes in like a dripping faucet. Does not have to be that way but it is.
8. You are constantly making up the happy ending.
9. You know that you know that you know something just doesn't feel right.
10. Then abundantly comes into full view with full meaning.

In closing, allow me to make this abundantly clear. Does not have to be this way if it is this way. Work it out!

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